Outside of a brief relationship a few months out of high-school, I have had much experience. The problem I have, is that the country I live in has a very conservative attitude about sex and relationships. Most people here consider sex something to happen only within marriage, and people both men and women, though not equally are judged very harshly about premarital sex.
I hope you may have some insight or advice into my predicament. Your articles and videos are great, thanks for the work you do. People like to get freaky, bang the way they prefer to bang and with the people they prefer to bang out with. Laws restricting pre-marital sex or extramarital sex, laws prohibiting same-sex relationships, even masturbation and sex-toys have never kept people from f. It has only either driven it underground or lead to the discovery of some very creative loop-holes.
So the odds are that there are far more people in your country and home town that are down with a little pre-marital action. Dating apps are the most obvious answer. Similarly, you may want to look within social circles, rather than clubs or bars. Alcohol may be a social lubricant, but it can also be the lubrication on a slippery slope of bad decisions.
One of the reasons why women are less likely to indulge in a casual fling is because the risks are high and the odds of the sex being any good are low. This is especially true when it comes to one-night stands and same-night hook-ups. Most men are all but guaranteed to orgasm during sex. Straight and bi women are far less likely… and the likelihood drops even further during a one-night stand.
That turns a lot of women off the idea of casual sex entirely. Who wants to risk pregnancy, STIs and physical violence for a guy who thinks that monotonously pounding away like a fleshy jackhammer is the ne plus ultra of good f.
