Friends with benefits FWB is a fun, no-strings way to have sex. So why give it up? There are 6 good reasons to, including laziness, distraction, and getting stuck with the wrong girl. If she causes drama , you can just tell her to knock it off or kick her out. Much easier to date multiple women concurrently more variety. It meets some of your needs But not all. Having sex on-tap when you need it is super useful, both for physical gratification and as a self-esteem prop.
You go out there, talk to girls , get rejected , then talk to more girls. Get more rejections. Finally get a date but it goes nowhere. After a few weeks or more of this, you can really take it to heart. So then you see your friend with benefits, shag her silly, spend a little quality time with her, and you are reminded: there are women who want you.
The next time you go out, your confidence is a whole lot higher. The freedom of sex without girlfriend responsibilities is another major plus. The ability to easily date multiple women at once is a huge boon, too. After work shower off, and another girl heads over to yours. It feels Pretty good. I first noticed this dark side observing a friend of mine who always ran multiple concurrent casual relationships. He was extremely good with girls and regularly took new girls to bed.
However, all his FWBs were on the plain side, looks-wise. One of his longest-tenured girls was a chubby girl with average looks and nothing exceptional about her.
The dark side was that the more friends with benefits he took on, the lazier about meeting new girls he got.
