Desperate women will do anything. A sugar arrangement is, according to the pimps and entrepreneurs, an exchange of cash, gifts or other financial and material benefits for good company. You are expected to be available as and when he wants you to be and get paraded around his fancy friends and business colleagues like a pet poodle.
Why would I want to pay a sex worker, have a maid, and sign up to one of those sites that provide me a date for the evening when I can have it all rolled into one? Audrey, a care worker in her late teens, was first sold for sex on the streets of Minneapolis at the age of 15, and eventually found her way into a brothel to escape her pimp. For six months, Audrey lived in an apartment rented by Ray, her sugar daddy.
He visited her every day for sex, expecting his sexual desires to be met regardless of her mood or feelings. Audrey once refused him because she had food poisoning, but Ray told her she would be homeless that night unless she gave him what he wanted. I was told it was going to be nice dinners and shopping trips, but I was literally his concubine.
So, there is that dance to deal with. Judy learned about SeekingArrangement from her friend at work. I signed up and was immediately inundated with requests to meet, from nice looking men.
For that amount of money there was, of course, a catch. Wade, 48, whose year-old sugar baby Zoe lives with him in Las Vegas, claims sugar daddies help empower young women and advance their lives. The SeekingArrangement website shows stock photos of white women, sometimes carrying shopping bags from expensive clothing and cosmetic stores. Nowhere are class and other social dividers starker than in an opulent setting β such as a five-star hotel room β in which one person can easily afford the bill, and the other does not even have a bank account.
