This day mentorship program completely transforms the way you are showing up in your dating life from an introspective, retaliational and practical foundation. So much better than junk mail, am I right? Let me first start off by saying, that dating is NOT explicitly in the Bible.
So, because of that everyone has therefore made up their own set of rules on dating. So what happens? This leads to everyone out here in the Christian dating world writing their own playbook on how to 'date the right way', but no one's playbooks are aligned!
Messy right?! On each date in the dating phase, the goal is to take it ONE date at a time as you approach the other person with curiosity. It's a low-pressure, low-stakes means of getting to know someone on a friendship level BEFORE you commit to pursuing a deep romantic connection in a relationship. Sounds easy breezy right? This mindset actually what I believe helped lead me to meet JJ and to start building a foundation for a healthy marriage.
Having the mindset of getting to know someone through time without RUSHING the process allowed me to take the pressure off and make sound decisions without all the deep feelings overriding me and without committing to the wrong person for me too early.
Throughout my process of dating multiple people, I challenged myself to journal after every date. I made notes of how I was feeling and even brought in trusted people keyword: trusted in my inner circle to process through the dates. Most importantly, I invited God into the depths of her thoughts and feelings and allowed HIM to ultimately guide the process of discernment and curiosity.
