Dear visitor, if you know the answer to this question, please post it. Thank you! Note that this thread has not been updated in a long time, and its content might not be up-to-date anymore. It might be arranged by a girl in college, for example, and if she's got a guyfriend in another college who might be interested in meeting someone, she might ask around among her classmates to see if they want to join, and the guy in another college might ask the same number of guys to participate.
I don't know if you are in college or working, but is there any friendship club or an English conversation lounge or something of the sort? The "dating" starts later only if one of the members like you enough to go out with you. In other words, those who arrange goukon tend to invite people who can contribute to the party, like fun and handsome people or someone ugly enough to match the other ugly members.
Now I'm not exactly judging here but isn't it a little harsh to say that only beautiful people do it? To the ones who answered my question, thank you for helping out. I will ask my female friend about it to learn more. I don't understand the part about "fun and handsome It IS like singles' party. And if they are shy to ask for that right at the party, some of them will try to arrange for another occasion. I was just trying to help, although unsuccessfully.
Question Forum Bookmarked questions Ask a new question. As mentioned, it's something arranged through friends, not an open-to-public event. To anonymous, Keep in mind that goukon is not "group dating.
Uco-san, I know we are both Japanese of the same gender in the same age bracket yes : , but your understanding definitely is not in line with mine. I never said nor think that "only beautiful people do" goukon and I don't think my post contradicts with those of others, but I'm sorry if it was misleading. Goukon Group Dating. Re: Goukon Group Dating.
