Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody. I have seen many posts talking about working as a escort or sex worker and some of them being in a positive light and some women doing this while married or having a partner. Well i wanted to write this not just as a rant for myself and to get it off my chest but to let other's know who might consider doing it that there is not that many positives to it.
Quite a long detailed post but a necessary one. I first started doing it 12 years ago and since i have come back the last 2 years i dont want to go into details of exact reasons of why i did it but i had my reasons.
I want to give a honest account and hope not to be judged. People in my private life would never guess i do this i am not a typical stereotype nor do i have any addictions or have a husband or partner leeching off me.
It was my decision and not taken lightly but there was reasons why i needed money this way. When i first started it there was more money to earn and yes i earnt a good living for a while and put money away but it did come with it's problems and dealing with some nasty men is one of them.
I am a private person and do this in secret only a few trusted people know the rest do not. Since being back on a short term basis it has definately become much much tougher to bare. I work independently from adultwork website and work from hotels or apartments.
