Sex is not always going to end with fireworks. Sometimes, rather than concluding with a big bang, it fizzles out like a deflated balloon. Even if you and your partner have been together for awhile now, your tried-and-true methods might fail, and sticking to the same routine might even be the cause of your ho-hum humping. Just about anyone could use new ideas for having more satisfying sex , because missionary is bound to get boring at some point.
After all, there's only one person who's responsible for getting you to orgasm, and it's neither your long-term partner nor your hookup buddy. That's right, friend. It's you. Changing up your sex routine doesn't necessarily mean donning a leather bustier and handcuffing your boo to your headboard unless, of course, that sounds pretty hot to you β in that case, have at it.
Having more satisfying sex could be as easy as doing it somewhere new, or trying a new condom brand, or telling your partner, "Touch me here , not there. Here are a few tips for spicing up your sex life , because you deserve to feel good.
One of the best ways to get yourself out of a sexual rut is to relocate. This can be as simple as doing it in a room other than your bedroom , or as involved as taking a trip together and giving yourselves a whole new setting. Staying in a hotel is always fun, but getting it on in a new place gives you more than just access to room service.
As psychologist and professor of psychology at York University, Dr. Amy Muise , told HuffPost, the reason why hotel sex is so exciting makes a lot of sense. According to Muise, vacations provide "opportunities for couples to self-expand," and doing it somewhere new might just inspire you and your boo to engage in activities and positions you've never tried. Having some background noise might make you more willing to be vocal while getting it on, but music does more than just give you a sexy soundtrack.
