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Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody. I love that there's no pressure, expectations or emotional weight to it. I was really upfront I do not want or need a relationship and that I needed to connect with someone before the sex could happen.
Due to various reasons, much as i like the guy as a friend, and the sex is GREAT, I know I wouldn't consider him relationship material. So I'm not worried about that so far. What are others' experiences? Anything I should look out for over the coming months?? I had a fwb relationship with my bff's db. Fell for him in time and we even married but wasn't the right level of love and respect on reflection.. Bad mistake ime. I've had a FWB for several years now.
Its great. Suits us both down to the ground. Works because much as we like each other we don't want a relationship. I think it's really important to communicate around expectations of frequency of meeting and staying in touch. When things have been going well in my FWB I feel really happy with it - but there has been one occasion when he let me down and didn't handle it well, it then put us under a bit of pressure.
I know that I don't want a relationship, but I do want to be treated respectfully. Have a think too about what the end looks like - is it a fizzle out? A frank chat? Or does someone get hurt? I found things were great with my FWBs for the first few months. Things then lost the heat with which they started, and became more mundane. One went into a depression when lockdown Jan 21 hit, and I never saw him for 4 months.
But somehow ended up being an emotional crutch for him by messaging. Was a really weird situation. We didn't see each other much after that lockdown lifted and I ended things when his head was in a better place. With all of them, I felt very much on the backfoot, waiting for them to call me. Probably more to do with me than them. No FWB now, as there's a good guy in my life. But I do miss that initial buzz of meeting a FWB the first few times.