Somali families are very collectivist with communal responsibilities. It is commonplace and accepted for a Somali child to be disciplined by another adult in the community that is not their parent.
Families often pool their resources and wealth so that everyone can meet collective needs. Relatives in more fortunate economic positions often feel a particularly strong sense of responsibility to support others. For example, a Somali person living in a Western country may prioritise sending money back to extended family members overseas rather than building their personal savings.
Indeed, remittances from Somalis living abroad comprise nearly one-fourth of household incomes in Somalia. Parents and elders are highly respected throughout all sectors of Somali society. It is highly inappropriate for children to talk back to or disobey anyone older than themselves. Most people's decisions, especially women, continue to be influenced by their parents in adulthood.
Elderly family members are cared for by their children and grandchildren into their old age. The basic household structure is traditionally large and multi-generational. Therefore, a traditional Somali household usually consists of three generations: 1. At the time of the Demographic and Health Survey, the average household size in Somalia was 6. Most Somalis consider six or more children to be the ideal family size. This norm is reflected in the country's total fertility rate of 6.
Gender roles are clearly defined in Somalia, and household chores are separated. Men traditionally hold the most authority and decision-making power. They are responsible for the financial well-being and safety of the family. Meanwhile, women are expected to fulfil different, complementary obligations. They are mainly responsible for acquiring and preparing food, raising children and other domestic activities.
