If you purchase an independently reviewed product or service through a link on our website, SheKnows may receive an affiliate commission. Not to mention, trying new sex positions can help stoke the so-called sexual flames, keeping things hot-hot-hot even as the months and years go on and of course, some new sex toys can help heat things up too.
Sometimes all it takes is a brand-spanking-new position to get the party started and to reignite some important conversations about what feels best in the act. Read on for a compilation of 69 nice sexpert-based sex positions we think you should try ASAP. Essentially an upgraded version of missionary, the Coital Alignment Technique position aka CAT is a face-to-face position that involves the penetrating partner moving up and down rather than in and out.
For this elevated variation, the receiving partner lays on their back. Then, the penetrating partner enters from above. The key word here? The penetrating partner needs to shift their weight forward so that their penis or dildo presses all along the external vulva rather than going right for the glory holes. This simultaneously massages the internal erogenous zones in the vagina like the G-spot as well the clitoral glans. As far as rear-entry sex positions go, doggy style is top dog. For this classic, the receiving partner gets on all fours while the penetrating partner stands or kneels behind them and goes to town.
Plus, the receiving partner is perfectly positioned to stimulate their clit with their hand or vibe. Meanwhile, emotionally and mentally, the bestial position can be arousing because it often feels more intense and less restrained. Butt-lovers rejoice! The Pushing Tush, sometimes known as rear-entry missionary, is a sex position that makes the back door the star of the show.
To facilitate the angle of entry, the bottom partner should put a sex pillow under their hips. Alternatively, the bottom can plant their feet into the mattress and then actively tilt their hips up and press their spine into the ground, which will open the anal canal. In case it needs to be said, lube is an absolute must here. The anal canal is never self-lubricating in the way the vagina often is. If both partners want to enjoy anal penetration at the same time, consider having the top partner plop in a vibrating butt plug or prostate massager ahead of entry.
