Annie Lane writes the Dear Annie advice column. I was even hospitalized for 10 days. Since then, the dynamic has completely changed. These daughters, who are both married with their own families, were once part of a tight-knit unit that enjoyed Sunday dinners and quality time. He denies knowing anything and dismisses my concerns, which has made me feel isolated. Am I being unfairly targeted, or is my mental health clouding my judgment? Eight years is a long time to be in a relationship.
You deserve better than to feel dismissed or blamed. With that being said, there are always two sides to the story, so make sure that you are reading their behavior correctly. Take some time to focus on what you need to feel secure and respected. Talk to your partner openly about how this is affecting you and what you need from him.
First and foremost, you have to protect your own mental health. Create boundaries with his daughters if necessary, lean on friends or a counselor for support, and do what makes you feel at peace. Send your questions for Annie Lane to dearannie creators. If you purchase a product or register for an account through a link on our site, we may receive compensation.
By Annie Lane.
