The girl, this time, is a friend of three years. They have two classes together. B the last frame, Alec and the girl are having a blast. They drink. One thing leads to another. They have sex. Afterward, she goes into a bedroom to sleep it off. He takes the kitchen floor.
People just do it to be able to have their cake and eat it too. Teenagers having sex is nothing new. What is new, though, is the predominant attitude toward it. Talk to teens in the local mall, or on Web sites such as BuddyPic. But they want to keep their emotions out of it.
In high school, it gets more popular the higher you go up the social ladder. Do you hook up regularly, but without the emotional, long-term commitment of a typical dating relationship? The usual suspects are taking the rap for the widening circle of FWBs: television, music, magazines, the Internet.
Sex without commitment is all there, looking very real and very attractive. Karen DeMars, co-founder of ecrush. If anything, like most things teen-angst-related, I think that the concept of friends with benefits just gained attention. Not just guys are checking their emotions at the door; girls are, too. I mean, a lot of girls are. I know girls that are 14 and are sexually active.
Other forces, like a strange form of girl power, may be what has leveled the playing field. Others, though, think it has to do with an aversion to monogamy. She says they like friends with benefits rather than committed relationships because monogamy is a thing of the past. Relationships are a lot of work, and I think people just got lazy. And then they get out before reality of it sets in: jealousy, nagging, less frequent and passionate sex.
