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I have a spanking fetish. I love to be spanked. I live in Oakland, California, so San Francisco is 10 minutes away. Any suggestions or resources? I read all my own mail. And I found someone for you—all by my lonesome—who is more qualified than I to answer your question. Where everybody finds their kink communities these days: online. On FetLife, she can also learn about where local spanking enthusiasts go for parties and munches.
Munches are informal get-togethers where kinksters meet to talk, not to play. Does she want to be spanked with a hand, hairbrush, belt, paddle, or something else? Would she prefer a punitive dynamic, or does she fantasize about erotic spankings? What implements, activities, words, or pain thresholds are absolutely off-limits? A safe, responsible, and trustworthy kinkster—the only kind of kinkster you ever want to play with—will agree to meet you in a public place to talk about your kinks and limits before setting up a playdate.
And no matter what she and a potential partner agree on before a scene, she can alwayschange her mind later if something feels uncomfortable. And there is absolutely no shame in using a safe word. So pick a fun one! Follow Jillian Keenan on Twitter at jilliankeenan. Eight women have now spoken to the press; two have allowed themselves to be named. He never was. I wrote two long posts about Ghomeshi on my blog—google my name and his and they pop right up.
My brother and I married two incredible women. Our wives were good friends before we started dating them. My brother has always been my best friend, so the four of us spend a lot of time together. Recently, a couple of drinks turned into a bunch, and then my wife and sister-in-law started making out.
