Neither of us is interested in anything serious and we establish that at the beginning. In response, the guy argues with me, tries to persuade me to give him another chance, or asks questions that are really just arguments disguised as inquiries. Hope to see you again!
Is there a kind but firm way to convey that my lack of interest is non-negotiable? Or is this just the price I pay for casual sex? Please stop second-guessing yourself, and please stop explaining yourself to persistent men. I am not interested. Block anyone who persists. However, anyone who seeks anything from other people, be it a restaurant meal or ride share or app sex, casts his or her lot in with strangers. However, we all have to understand and own the amount of risk we assume.
If your experiences have you rethinking your risk tolerance, then honor that with your choices. Entirely your call. Share story. By Carolyn Hax. Dear Carolyn Adapted from a recent online discussion. Most Read Life Stories Flying with an infectious disease in Do's and don'ts Is green tea as good for you as claims say? Do you really want to live forever, or just be healthier for longer? Email Carolyn at tellme washpost. Find her columns daily at www.
