Savage Love by Dan Savage. I am a year-old straight male interested in ballbusting. So a few minutes into the game, this beautiful butch lesbian punches me in the balls! Then she tries to get someone to dare her to do it again! Can you advise me? Assuming Buck is a butch dyke and not a retarded one, CBT, she knows damn well that you were getting off on her busting your balls.
I mean, come on. Otherwise, why seek your reassurance to the contrary again and again? But clearly she needed some cover, some plausible deniability, some excuse that allowed her to engage in a technically nonsexual but highly chargedโand totally public! Which is ultimately why she extracted all those public and, no doubt, barely credible denials from you.
Do it again! So should you come clean and offer Buck your balls for more abuse? Finally, CBT, what have you got to lose? You risk nothing by coming clean and stand to gain regular bullbustings. Go for it. My girlfriend has a bit of a hygiene problem. How should I address this? Adoption is still a viable choice for PREG even now, although clearly a difficult one to make this late. Adoption is rarely discussed as a viable option for smart, capable, educated women who may not be in a position financially or personally to raise children.
Why do so many pro-choice advocates see abortion as the ONLY choice? There are others! When a woman today chooses adoption, she will find, as I did when I made that choice, an entire support network available to her every step of the way. It can end in the creation of a new family, with parents who have made a careful, conscious choice to create a home full of the love and support a child needs and deserves.
I was just confused why you would fail to mention adoption. Advocating abstinence before adoption? Can this really be the advice of the Dan Savage whose column I know and love? Can the bias against adoption be so firmly entrenched that even an adoptive parentโan idiotic one, but stillโneglects to mention it as a viable choice?
